Luck is a losers excuse for a winners success
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Quite often we change jobs, friends and spouses instead of ourselves.
Happiness is a decision, not an experience.
Write your life the way you want to.. life is a book .. each day is
a day which you can't rewrite
You can complain that roses have thorns; or rejoice that thorns have
roses.
The greater a man's soul, the deeper he loves.
It is easier to do a job right than to explain why you didn't.
Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word,
a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all
of which have the potential to turn a life around.
People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when
the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true
beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within.
For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin -
real life. But here was always some obstacle in the way, something to be
gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served,
or a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that
this was my life. This perspective has helped me to see that there is no
way to happiness. Happiness is the way
Its not the critic who counts, nor the man who points out how the strong
man stumbles, or where the doer of the deeds could
have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in
the arena; whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives
valiantly; who errors and comes short again and again; who knows the great
enthusiasm, the great devotions and spends himself in a worthy cause; who
at least knows in the end the triumph of his achievement, and who at worst,
if he fails, at least fails while doing greatly, so that his place shall
never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory or defeat.
You know, all mystics -Catholic, Christian, non Christian, no matter
what their theology, no matter what their religion -- are
unanimous on one thing: that all is well, all is well. Though everything
is a mess, all is well. Strange paradox, to be sure. But, tragically, most
people never get to see that all is well because they are asleep. They
are having a nightmare.
I have a thought...the one God has meant for us is going to be the
hardest to get, the hardest to keep, and the hardest to accept. Because
through all that, love will grow stronger, bonds will become thicker, and
the future will become more clear. Love wasn't made to be easy, otherwise,
we wouldn't end up with the RIGHT person, we would end up with the first
one who came along. By struggling, we single out the wrong ones and realize
who really is the ONE
The trick is in what one emphasizes...We either make ourselves miserable,
or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same.
At the end of your life, you will never regret not having passed one
more test, not winning one more verdict, or not closing one
more deal. You will regret time not spent with a husband, a friend,
a child, or a parent.
You gotta dance like nobody's watching, dream like you will live forever,
live like your going to die tomorrow and love like it's
never going to hurt.
Somewhere there is someone who dreams of your smile, and finds in your
presence that life is worth while, so when you are
lonely, remember it's true, somebody, somewhere, is thinking of you.
To the world you might be one person, but to one person you might be
the world.
Be who you are and say what you feel cause people who mind don't matter,
and people who matter don't mind.
Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you
didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off
the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds
in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.
I have learned that success is to be measured not so much by the position
that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome
while trying to succeed.
Don't cry because its over, smile because it happened.
A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it
back to you when you have forgotten the words.
The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person
doing it.
Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path
and leave a trail.
I had no shoes and complained, Until I met a man who had no feet.
Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't
mean they don't love you the best way they know how.
What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared
to what lies within us.
Our greatest glory consists not in never falling, but in rising every
time we fall.
Our background and circumstances may influence who we are, but we are
responsible for who we become.
To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something
else is the greatest accomplishment.
What consumes your mind, controls your life
The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of
comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and
controversy.
A real friend is someone who walks in, when the rest of the world walks
out.
You can easily judge the character of a man by how he treats those
who can do nothing for him.
We don't stop playing because we grow older, we grow older because
we stop playing.
Put your hand on a hot stove for a minute, and it seems like an hour.
Sit with a pretty girl for an hour, and it seems like a minute. THAT'S
relativity.
The more of the past you carry around, the less of the present there
is room for.
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If you find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn't lead anywhere.
To be a star you must follow your own light, follow your own path,
and never fear the darkness, for that is when the stars
shine the brightest.
The greatest weakness of most humans is their hesitancy to tell others
how much they love them while they're alive.
The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the
past, not to worry about the future, or not to anticipate
troubles, but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly.
It takes courage to push yourself to places that you have never been
before...to test your limits... to break through barriers.
And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight inside the bud
was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.
When you are inspired by some great purpose, some extraordinary project,
all your thoughts break their bounds: Your mind transcends limitations,
your consciousness expands in every direction, and you find yourself in
a new, great, and wonderful world. Dormant forces, faculties, and talents
become alive, and you discover yourself to be a greater person by far than
you ever dreamed yourself to be.
Here's to the kids who are different The ones who don't always get
A's The kids who have ears Twice the size of their peers Or noses that
go on for days. Here's to the kids who are different The kids who are just
out of step The kids they all tease Who have cuts on their knees And whose
sneakers are constantly wet. Here's to the kids who are different The kids
with a
mischievous streak For when they have grown, as history has shown It's
their difference that makes them unique.
A Decalogue of Canons for observation in practical life:
1. Never put off until tomorrow what you can do today.
2. Never trouble another for what you can do yourself.
3. Never spend your money before you have it.
4. Never buy what you do not want, because it is cheap; it will be
dear to you.
5. Pride costs us more than hunger, thirst, and cold.
6. We never repent of having eaten too little.
7. Nothing is troublesome that we do willingly.
8. How much pain have cost us the evils which never have happened.
9. Take things always by their smooth handle.
10. When angry, count ten, before you speak; if very angry, a hundred.
(letter to Thomas Jefferson Smith, 1825.)
Suddenly, quietly, you realize that - from this moment forth - you
will no longer walk through this life alone. Like a new sun
this awareness arises within you, freeing you from fear, opening your
life. It is the beginning of love, and the end of all that came before.
Do what you have to do to succeed, along life's journey there will
be tiffs and snags. But if you let the little things bother you.
the roads going to be full of hawthorn trees.
True friendship multiplies the good in life and divides it's evils.
Strive to have friends, for life without friends is like life on a
desert island. To find one real friend in a lifetime is good fortune;
to keep him is a blessing.
Reality is what we take to be true.
What we take to be true is what we believe.
What we believe is based on our perceptions.
What we perceive depends on what we look for.
What we look for depends on what we think.
What we think depends on what we perceive.
What we perceive determines what we take to be true.
What we take to be true is our reality.
If a man is called to be a street sweeper, he should sweep streets
as Michelangelo painted, or Beethoven composed music, or Shakespeare wrote
poetry. He should sweep streets so well that all the hosts of heaven and
earth will pause to say, here lived a great street sweeper who did his
job well.
You don't know me until you've walked in my footsteps and viewed the
world from my perspective. You don't know me until
you've suffered my pain and endured my happiness. You don't know
me until you've bored my soul and died my death
We do not believe in ourselves until someone reveals that deep inside
us is valuable, worth listening to, worthy of our trust,
sacred to our touch. Once we believe in ourselves we can risk curiosity,
wonder, spontaneous delight or any experience that
reveals the human spirit.
If you don't have a dream, how are you going to have a dream come true?
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and
fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God.
Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't
feel insecure about you.
We were born to manifest the glory of God that is within us.
It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people
permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates
others.
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the
courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
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Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks about changing
themselves.
When you plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the
lettuce. You look for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer,
or more water, or less sun. You never blame the lettuce.
Yet if we have problems with our friends or family, we blame the other
person. But if we know how to take care of them, they will grow well, like
the lettuce. Blaming has no positive effect at all, nor does trying to
persuade using reason and arguments.
That is my experience. No blame, no reasoning, no argument, just understanding.
Before you talk about what you want - Really appreciate what you have
before it's gone.
When you call yourself an Indian or a Muslim or a Christian or a European,
or anything else, you are being violent. Do you
see why it is violent? Because you are separating yourself from the
rest of mankind. When you separate yourself by belief, by nationality,
by tradition, it breeds violence. So a man who is seeking to understand
violence does not belong to any country, to any religion, to any political
party or partial system; he is concerned with the total understanding of
mankind.
In the end we'll remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence
of our friends.
Falling Doesn't Make You a Failure, Staying Down Does
Pain is only weakness leaving your body, so don't give up because it
hurts keep going cause it makes you stronger
When you wonder why it is you are with who you are with, remember the
moment you fell in love and it will all come back
to you.
Don't go through life, GROW through life.
The hardest part of all is learning to be a well of affection, and
not a fountain; to show them we love them not when we feel
like it, but when they do.
Do what you have to do to succeed, along life's journey there will
be tiffs and snags. But if you let the little things bother you.
the roads going to be full of hawthorn trees.
True friendship multiplies the good in life and divides it's evils.
Strive to have friends, for life without friends is like life on a
desert island. To find one real friend in a lifetime is good fortune;
to keep him is a blessing.
He who asks, is a fool for five minutes, but he who does not ask remains
a fool forever.
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Never frown because you never know who might be falling in love
with your smile.
Don't be afraid to attempt something new. Remember, it was amateurs
who built the ark. It was professionals who built the
Titanic.
Everyone hears what you say. Friends listen to what you say. Best friends
listen to what you don't say.
Someone once asked me "why do you always insist on taking the hard
road?" and I replied "why do you assume I see two
roads"?
Give a man a fish, and he eats for a day. Teach a man to fish, and
he eats forever
To love is one thing, to be loved is something and to have both is
everything.
Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible
to forget.
A friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
Sometimes the majority only means that all the fools are on the same
side.
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything;
they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much
as we speak.
Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its
strength.
You laugh at me because I'm different, and I laugh at you because you're
all the same.
Be nice and smile to everyone you meet. You don't know what they are
going through, and they may need that smile. And
treasure it.
You never really lose, until you quit trying.
Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you'll understand what
little chance you have to change others.
I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to
please everybody.
Love is like playing piano. First you must learn to play by the
rules, then you must forget the rules and play from your heart.
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Have great hopes and dare to go all out for them. Have great dreams
and dare to live them. Have tremendous expectations
and believe in them.
Look into my eyes and see what I feel, look into my mind and see how
I think, look into my soul and see the truth.
If a man is called to be a streetsweeper, he should sweep streets as
Michelangelo painted, or Beethoven composed music, or Shakespeare wrote
poetry. He should sweep streets so well that all the hosts of heaven and
earth will pause to say, here lived a great streetsweeper who did his job
well.
Heaven on Earth is a choice you must make, not a place you must find.
One should guard against preaching to young people success in the customary
form as the main aim in life. The most important motive for work in school
and in life is pleasure in work, pleasure in its result, and the knowledge
of the value of the result to the community.
The most important issue is your spiritual growth. This is your real
life.
At night turn everything over to God, and rest in His arms till morning.
Its not the ups and downs that make your life difficult, its the way
you choose to deal with them.
People are just about as happy as they make up their minds to be.
Prayer is the greatest power in the world.
Since you alone are responsible for your thoughts, only you can change
them. You will want to change them when you realize that each thought creates
according to its own nature. Remember that the law works at all times and
that you are always demonstrating according to the kind of thoughts you
habitually entertain. Therefore, start now to think only those thoughts
that will bring you health and happiness.
To worry is like rocking in a rocking chair. It gives you something
to do, but gets you nowhere.
The most precious possession that ever comes to a man in this world,is
a woman's heart.
You wouldn't worry so much about what people really thought of you
if you knew just how seldom they actually do.
Let go of whats gone
Obstacles are challenges for winners and excuses for losers.
Don't take life too seriously. no one gets out alive, anyways.
You don't know me until you've walked in my footsteps and viewed the
world from my perspective. You don't know me until
you've suffered my pain and endured my happiness. You don't know me
until you've bored my soul and died my death
True love lasts forever.
Know the truth. and the truth shall set you free.
Religion is for people afraid of going to hell, spirituality is for
people who've been there!
Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all
the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
To find out what you love to do demands a great deal of intelligence;
because, if you are afraid of not being able to earn a livelihood, or of
not fitting into this rotten society, then you will never find out. But,
if you are not frightened, if you refuse to
be pushed into the groove of tradition by your parents, by your teachers,
by the superficial demands of society, then there is
a possibility of discovering what it is you really love to do. So,
to discover, there must be no fear of not surviving.
Only by going too far can one possibly find out how far one can go.
One does not discover new lands without consenting to lose sight of
the shore for a very long time.
Most look up and admire the stars. A champion climbs a mountain and
grabs one.
A life without love is no life at all.
Spirituality means waking up. Most people, even though they don't know
it, are asleep. They're born asleep, they live asleep,
they marry in their sleep, they breed children in their sleep, they
die in their sleep without ever waking up. They never understand the loveliness
and the beauty of this thing that we call human existence.
Never compromise yourself, it's all you've got.
You have powers you never dreamed of. You can do things you never thought
you could do. There are no limitations in what
you can do except the limitations of your own mind.
Often people attempt to live their lives backwards; they try to make
more things, or more money, in order to do more of what they want, so they
will be happier. The way it actually works is in reverse. You must first
be who you really are, then do what you need to do, in order to have what
you want.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that
she carries, or the way she combs her hair; the beauty of a woman must
be seen from in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the
place where love resides.
Once true love finds you, seize it and discard all that may harm it,
as there is nothing more precious on this Earth.
You may not have perfect teeth, or a nose to ever match, but if you're
smiling through your heart, that smile will be nothing
less than beutiful
What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the master calls a
butterfly.
True wealth can not be found in your bank account. It can only be found
in those you call friend. Those with whom you share
your deepest feelings. And those who accept you for who you really
are.
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There is no blade that can cut as deep as the words from ones mouth.
Randy Gray
Love is a funny thing; you can never see how one could love another
until you do so yourself.
Unknown
The battles you fight in your souls everyday are the toughest ones
to overcome.
Ameya
The great thing about experience is that you can't borrow it, buy it
or steal it, you must earn it
Len Scherder
Even if courage fails you, tell that special someone that you love
them in anyway possible.
Unknown
May you live all the days of your life.
Jonathan Swift
The best helping hand that you will ever receive is the one at the
end of your own arm.
Fred Dehner
Most of us ask for advice when we know the answer but we want a different
one.
Ivern Ball
Love knows, not its own depth, until the hour of seperation
Unknown
Never,never, never give up!
Winston Churchill
Not being known doesn't stop the truth from being true.
Richard Bach
A friend is one who knows you and loves you just the same.
Elbert Hubbard
Believe that life is worth living and your belief will help create
the fact.
William James
Do not take life too seriously. You will never get out of it alive.
Elbert Hubbard
Before you go to bed at night give all of your cares and worries to
God, He'll be up all night anyways!
Unknown
To be in time is to be asleep: to be awake is to be in eternity
Osho
Sometimes our light goes out but is blown into flame by another human
being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this
light.
Albert Schweitzer
Love heals what hate breaks.
Unknown
Nobody ever does anything for free
Unknown
Life is difficult.
This is a great truth, one of the greatest truths. It is a great truth
because once we truly see this truth, we transcend it. Once we truly know
that life is difficult--once we truly understand and accept it--then life
is no longer difficult. Because once it is accepted, the fact that life
is difficult no longer matters.
M. Scott Peck
There is no life I know to compare with pure imagination. Living there,
you'll be free if you truly wish to be. If you want to view
paradise, simply look around and view it. Anything you want to, do
it. Want to change the world? There's nothing to it.
Willy Wonka
Remeber not getting what you want, is sometimes a wonderful stroke
of luck!
Unknown
Searching for that big happy moment in life, how many special little
moments we let pass us by?
Anonymous
Love is scary, you sometimes get hurt, but believe me it is worth it
every time, love with all of your heart and God will be there.
Laura Payne